Hi I'm 16 and I was just curious upon how anyone feels about me dating a 21 year old guy. Mind you that I am very mature for my age and I don't get along well with the average person around my age. I've always had older friends by the maximum of 5 years my whole life. I've also done research on the laws of California regarding minors. We talked to eachother and made sure if that was what we wanted considering our age difference and it seems that it is.