Because people lie. And while it may seem that a guy likes you and really wants to date you, they could just be playing nice in order to get in your pants. Guys know that us ladies are more inclined to want a relationship than they are. They usually are more interested in all the physical cts of a relationship and less about actually dating. Here are all the signs he wants to date you. A guy who wants to talk with you and get to know you is a guy who wants to date you. Again, a guy who wants to get to know you is someone who wants to date you.