Well, everyone who goes to a party wants to have a good time, probably the best time they ever have and includes both the guys and the girls. And after a night of drinking, dancing and a lot of banter, it would only make sense if you got to take the belle of the ball at home. Doing so is like putting the icing on the cake and that is why it is very important to guys. Here are some of the things you can incorporate into your game if at all you want to get better at this:. Confidence will almost always give you the chance to hook up with any girl at any given party. There is no way around it but the good thing is that if you're shy you can always work on it. No one is born confident.