When we are younger, looking at people 10 to 20 years or more older we think - man they are old. Well, if you are reading this, you are probably in your 30s and wondering what all the fuss was about. Maybe your dating life has slowed a bit or is just in need of a facelift. Just because you are entering your mid-life years doesn't mean you have to stop going out, enjoying life, and experiencing new things with new people. Far from it as dating is just getting fun when you are at 30 somethings.

I repeatedly tell my clients that the first 3 months of dating a man are critical. Learn the 6 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate in my free guide [click here to download]. Critical, because this is the time period during which rapid attraction building is taking place and where the man is essentially making up his mind about you and if he wants a future with you. Believe it or not but in these first 12 weeks of knowing a man, the fundamentals of the relationship are decided. What you do during this phase of dating is what will go on to decide how the relationship will evolve and look in the future and whether or not it will at all progress forward.

Three hundred and sixty-five days-and counting! The first year of marriage is in the books, which means it's time to celebrate. And what better way to celebrate than with the perfect first anniversary gift? That said, we realize that finding one-year anniversary gifts that are both special and sentimental isn't always easy. Which is exactly why we've rounded up the best and most unique first anniversary gift ideas for him, her and them. It's meant to represent the newness of your young marriage. That said, paper isn't your only option for a first wedding anniversary gift.